This fierce, highly independent woman is a true force to be reckoned with. She’s a real alpha woman.
By: Riley Cooper
If you’ve met her, I’m sure you’ve noticed how character and behavior make her differ from the rest of the female world. This woman is smart, confident, bold, and driven, and she shines with grace and beauty. She is rare to find. She’s unique.
Being in a relationship with a highly independent woman can be one of the most amazing and unforgettable experiences you can ever have, of course, if you know how to be the partner she needs.
You can’t be flaky and act immaturely. You can’t be selfish and lie to her because she’ll leave you without thinking. You need to remember that she doesn’t need you to feel complete – she already is.
This woman knows her worth and what she deserves, and she won’t settle for anything less than that.
What the alpha woman expects from you is to be her lover, her best friend, her companion for life. She is not afraid to show her love for you and she invests herself completely in the relationship. Yet, she also knows when to walk away.
Following are 8 things she will never put up with in a relationship, and if you do even one of them, get prepared to see her walk out the door.
She won’t tolerate disrespect.
If there’s one thing that a badass woman values in the relationship, that’s respect. She treats others with respect and expects to be treated the same way, especially by her guy.
She’s more than aware of her self-worth and knows how to defend herself. If you try to underestimate her importance or lie to her, she won’t give you a second chance. She knows that nobody deserves to be treated like that, and if she notices that you don’t respect her, she’ll walk away from you.
She won’t tolerate being dominated.
What? How can you possibly think that you can dominate this fierce, strong-willed, independent woman? Equality is important to her and it’s something she always demands in her relationships, be that romantic or otherwise.
You can’t push her up against the wall and tell her what to do. You can’t treat her as your inferior and expect that she’ll be the only one to do all the give-and-take in the relationship.
If you live together, this woman won’t clean your stuff and make you your favorite foods if you don’t do the same for her. You’re valuable, but so is she.
She won’t tolerate a partner who doesn’t express himself.
She’ll never be with a guy who feels hesitant and ashamed to show his feelings for her. Just because this woman is independent and strong, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to feel loved and appreciated by her man.
In addition, although she knows her worth and doesn’t need other people’s validation, she wants to receive compliments from you. She’s like a rare mixture of a self-confident, badass woman and a lady. So, I guess she expects her guy to treat her like a real gentleman. So, make sure you are one.
She won’t tolerate a partner who breaks her boundaries.
This is a no-no. The alpha woman is a master of her own life. She has clear boundaries and she doesn’t let anyone disrespect them. Her independence and freedom are her most distinctive traits.
She knows exactly what she wants and doesn’t want in life. When she says no, she really means it. Never try to make her think and act otherwise because she’ll show you the door.
She won’t tolerate a partner who doesn’t listen to her opinions.
This woman stands firm on the ground. She doesn’t think she’s the smartest person in the world. Yet, she has confidence in her intellectual abilities and knowledge and she knows she has valuable words of wisdom to share with you and others as well.
She expects her partner to not only be physically present and just nods his head when she’s talking to him, but to listen to her attentively so as to understand what she has to say. But, if you’re “too smart” or too busy to listen, she won’t waste her time on you and it won’t take her long before she tells you goodbye.
She won’t tolerate being lied to.
Honesty is a quality she values a lot. She always tells the truth, shows her emotions, expresses her opinions as they are, and acts in accordance with her values and principles.
She expects you to behave the same way. If you aren’t able to stick to these behaviors, and moreover, if you attempt to lie to or cheat on her, get ready to face the consequences. She’ll detect your lie from a mile and cut you off completely.
She won’t tolerate a partner who avoids taking responsibility.
When this woman makes a mistake, she owns up to it. She never holds others accountable for her own actions. If you refuse to take responsibility for your mistakes and wrongdoings or try to shift the blame onto her, she’ll no longer going to waste her time with you.
This badass woman has no time for playing the blame game and dating an immature, irresponsible man.
She won’t tolerate a partner who doesn’t support her ambitions.
An alpha woman has goals to achieve and knows how to do that. This woman wants her guy to have goals and dreams too and to show determination and do his best to fulfill them.
But, if you’re often putting her down and telling her that her goals are too high and unrealistic, and if you doubt her ability to achieve them, she’ll see no reason to be with you. This badass woman will definitely never allow someone to make her give up her goals and dreams and prevent her from achieving both personal and professional success.